>I find far more noise than "learning" coming from threads by the originator in question, but nevertheless I later wished that I had just shut up on the matter. But I unfortunately let it get to me. I've told myself to be extra tolerant next time. I hope I can do it.

Jim, I frequently find myself agreeing with your points including today when you say that you should be extra tolerant next time. Of course you can do it. Just remember that we are in the same boat and are each other's best resource. Peace and love.

Alex