Naomi,

In case you have to deal with multiple entrees under the same child, like e.e. 2 homenumbers, 3 cellphones and 1 email, I am afraid you will have to use a procedure; this is an excellent job for Fox with scan ,scatter and gather, update. Dont try to do this with a SQL select.
I dont think I shall have to write out the coding for you, however if you need some rest I am gladly prepared. Just give me the table structures, you know my Email address.

Regards,

Koen