>>Someone puts a troll alert on a message and they are essentially subjectively trying to put their values and moral code on me. It's not necessary. I'm a big boy. I can choose for myself without any assistance from Ned Flanders.
With respect, nobody is directing anything at you. The message would not be addressed to you unless you are the one being provocative. I've already said the message is intended for the target of the cruelty who, provoked beyond endurance, may be about to lash back in a terminal fashion. Not sure why this keeps turning into a story about you- especially when you've said that people should simply ignore messages they do not like.
"... They ne'er cared for us
yet: suffer us to famish, and their store-houses
crammed with grain; make edicts for usury, to
support usurers; repeal daily any wholesome act
established against the rich, and provide more
piercing statutes daily, to chain up and restrain
the poor. If the wars eat us not up, they will; and
there's all the love they bear us."
-- Shakespeare: Coriolanus, Act 1, scene 1