>I think I read that the default max size of an array is 65,000 elements. Im guessing that means 65k rows for a one dimensional array and 32.5k rows for a two dimensional? Anyways how can I increase this?

The limit in VFP8 and earlier is 65,000 items ( <64K) per array regardless if it's one or two-dementional. The # of items in 2D array is nRows*nCols. The documented limit for a regular or property array in VFP9 is 2 gigabytes but in reality it's limited by amount of available memory.