>Stephen, you're interpreting and interfering in the wrong way. I'm not at all upset by what Jean is writing, and I will never be because he's not worth it. So, no need for me to lighten up. But there is some history and he apparently knows exactly which derogative words to use that won't be immediately recognized as such by all. And I'll always byte, simply because it's not my style to allow another person to try to derogate me.

My friends mother in law is like that. I guess that you just have to not take the bait in the future.