>>For you see, she has a drinking problem, and the doctors (and me) tell her it is the drinking that caused her problem. She is denial, and she thinks the problem is some kind of Cold. But for over 6 months? I don't think so. I truly need to find her help. First she has to want the help for it to truly help.
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>>Well, I am going back to search for outside help. Any suggestion, outside the obvious (AA, etc.) would helpful from you or anyone else that reads this post.
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>>Thanks to you, and all.
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>In my many years of dealing with people with substance abuse, I have found THEY are the only ones who can rehabilitate themselves. She will have to have an epiphany before she can make real improvement. I will continue my prayers for you and her.

I totally igree, and thank you.