>I think it would be interesting to do a poll about general relationship between a man and woman. I think the majority of the woman would love for the man to take the lead most of the time with family issues. Don't know about churches, but I guess it would apply there too.
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>I think women still seek men who can take the lead and make choices and decisions. I think they want a MAN, not a feminized man created by Hollywood and the so called "women's movement".
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>I don't think women necessarily want to make decisions, but they would like to be informed with what is going on so they won't be "surprised" when something happens.
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>This doesn't mean they want an overbearing, insensitive buffoon.

This kinda dovetails on your leaderer / deciderer / buffooner line of thinking:

http://www.taylormarsh.com/archives_view.php?id=24262