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>>So what if he's too busy to notice the desire (that God instilled) in her, or if she has the despise (that God instilled) against him? Is she to submit unconditionally? How is that different from slavery?
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>Slavery is involuntary - marraige is not. A woman better be sure she is willing to submit before she agrees to do so... In cases where a husband is not treating his wife with respect, the wife would need to follow the pricinples in Matthew 18 regarding church discipline.

I've had a chat with my wife and she says she's willing to go 10 rounds kick-boxing with you to determine who's going to be submitting to who.