>>>>>>I think it would be interesting to do a poll about general relationship between a man and woman. I think the majority of the woman would love for the man to take the lead most of the time with family issues.
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>>>>>Sam, have you been smoking crack by any chance? LOL
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>>>>No. But I think I had a little too much Jim Beam Bourbon last night. :)
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>>>>It's just an opinion. Don't get all hot about it.
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>>>I'm not hot about it at all. It's just that what you said does not correspond to any version of reality I know. There is some primal connection between a mother and her children that the husband cannot possibly duplicate. Don't get me wrong, because I consider myself a pretty darned good father (said without ego), but to me the notion that the mother is somewhere off in the background waiting for the father to tell her how to raise the kids is far-fetched, to say the least.
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>>I agree. where did I say otherwise?
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>Where you said the majority of women want the man to take the lead in family matters.

I don't mean every day things like raising kids and buying groceries and paying the bills. Kids need input from both parents, if possible... and no, I'm not saying that these things aren't important.

I mean things like buying home insurance, things that are a hassle and combersome. In my opinion she would like the man to handle it and give her a break from the hassle. I'm certainly not saying that a woman isn't capable of handling it.

My boss hate it when his people ask him about every little thing. He would rather us just follow procedure and take care of it and if you make a mistake, well, fix it.