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>>3) Do you think my husband was wrong in allowing (I have trouble typing that with a straight face) me to work all these years, even after we had children?
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>I do not know the circumstances surrounding that decision. The first thing to consider is that if you are not Christian - then you are under no obligation to be submissive to your husband.

If I remember correctly, Howard, you are of the opinion that all non-Christians (men, woman, and children) will burn for all eternity in hell. Is that still the case? If so, then I think whether Tamar wants to work or not should perhaps be somewhat of a lesser concern for her in the greater scheme of things.