>I can only speak for myself, not others. I am not offended at all that you and your wife are happy with your lives. That's great, and I am not being ironic or flippant. Where I *do* start getting offended is when you seem to be prescribing the choices you have made as the choices others should make as well. Not only should make, but will spend eternity in hell if they don't. (Even if they were just born into the "wrong" religion). To me that's quite condescending. The bottom line IMO is none of us truly knows what the hereafter will bring. The only difference is you think you do.

Amen.