>>>>Wouldn't that be a typical "deadlock" situation, using computer terms? I mean, if each one waits for the other one to take the first step...
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>>>Yes, I guess it is. Do you know solution for a deadlock? <g>
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>>With a relationship that has gone sour it is sometimes best to practice avoidance. Some situations are impossible to resolve due to human emotions. You have to realize when it is necessary to break off a relationship and get on with your life.
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>>Many times when you break off a relationship you feel so terrible! What can I do to “patch things up”? The other person may be perfectly happy and not interested in ever seeing or hearing from you again. You worry and suffer and they do not. For you life is bad. For them life is good. It is your choice.
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>Well, precisely. But the question is how can MY life be as good? <g> Because currently it's bad and painful...

It is you who controls how you will feel about any subject. You have to learn how to move on and enjoy your life. Simple to say! :)