If you're starting C# and .NET at the same time there's a lot to take on board. The only consolation I can offer is that it gets better with time.
FWIW, for general, across-the-board coverage my favourite book is "Pro C# 2005 and the .NET 2.0 Platform" from Apress.

Regards,
Viv

>I am having a real problem getting to grips with this
>Thanks
>
>Maybe I need some lessons
>
>R