We have always highlighted the selected object (text box, check box, etc.) when the user is editing in a form or grid. We change the object's backcolor in gotfocus and lostfocus. This works great in a form. However, I cannot seem to get anything to work in a grid with the checkbox backcolor. In order to see the checkboxes in all records and whether each is checked or not, you must set sparse to false. However, when the column with the checkbox is selected the checkbox in all rows are highlighted.

Anyone have any idea how to somehow show only the checkbox in the current row as the current object? I know there are some settings in the grid layout but I have never been able to get them to work the way I would like. Maybe I just don't get it and need someone to explain what I am missing.
Thanks.