>>I could not disagree with you more profoundly. The whole concept of a twit filter -- something I have never used, FWIW -- is that one member has irritated another so seriously that they don't want to deal with them at all. The irritant (the twitted) has no right to demand a hearing or another chance. We are all here "at will" and no member is obligated to put up with the unwanted words of another. If such a process were put in effect it would guarantee the loss of some members.
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>>This is an extreme example but it's like requiring a woman who was raped to sit down and talk it over with her rapist.
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>There is no way you can be sure that the assumption that one member has irritated another so seriously is correct in every case.
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>About your example:
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>Suppose Tracy accused me of having raped her verbally, I'd certainly try to talk it over, with her. With who else!
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>Suppose Naomi only thinks I have insulted her, applies a twit-filter and does not let me know why. How on earth could I then know and try to apologize or whatever!

Peter,
One technique that I used to see here (not so much recently, I must admit) was the the offended (by some message) person would reply with something like "Plunk! (twitted)"

So that option remains available to anyone.