>>>Since I found this problem, I was in a very low spirit. I failed an important job interview (which I would probably fail anyway), I can not think of anything else. Getting over it will take 3 months at least. It may take longer...
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>>This is (at least) the second time that you have encountered an overly depressing situation OF SOMEONE ELSE'S CHOICE. In both cases people gave you excellent advise. But you just will not take it!
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>>At least STOP BOTHERING US with your personal turmoils of this nature. We've tried to help and been REJECTED. How do you think we feel as this goes on-and-on-and-on???? You will not stop until you have gotten the attention of the other person who (you believe) has silghted you. Why don't you pester them in THEIR e-mail and leave us out of it???? We've tried, we've failed, and WE WANT TO MOVE ON!
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>How CRUDE you are here, Jim! I mean it. And although you frequently use the words US and WE, you certainly do not speak on MY behalf.

Geez. I guess if I was on your twit filter you wouldn't have to put up with such crap < s >.

I didn't expect that I was talking on your behalf in my use of "we" and "us", because I was referring to those of US who have tried UNSUCCESSFULLY to give her advice. Those of YOU who successfully got advice into her head or those of you who didn't offer her advice at all are naturally exempted.

Tell me, Peter, how I should have said what I wanted to say?... Or are you suggesting that it is something that shouldn't have been said at all?