>I have a cmd btn that I only want enabled when the user clicks on it and want it disabled when said cmd btn has the focus so the user cannot hit ENTER and activate its click event. Can I move the focus to another control if the user DOES hit ENTER on it and not have it fire?

Sure, add to Button.Keypress event

If nKeycode=13
  Thisform.Othercontrol.Setfocus
  NODEFAULT
Endif