They both matter, of course.

I can't believe I messed up the thread title....


>What is that saying? Something like: It doesn't matter what you go through in life but only your attitude while you go through it! :o)
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>>>I don't see how "This doesn't work for me because..." is in any way "positive". It may offer warranted criticism that may be viewed as "consrtuctive", but it is nevertheless negative. You are not saying 'yes', are you?
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>>I think she is referring to a positive or negative attitude about a problem.