>Then was their lost don't worried about that that would be a site I wouldn't participate then.
>IMO is more like to someone be banned it must do something really wrong otherwise everyone should have the freedom to express his/her toughts even if I don't agree with them.

I see it differently. Actually as opposed to everyone's normal reaction when I get a rejection from a site or a person I always consider this as my personal lost and not theirs. From unfortunate past experiences I may learn that trying to explain and fix things usually lead to a completely opposite effect. Yet I continue to make the same mistakes again and again. And in addition I take it too seriously and get too deep emotionally involved. Anyway, that's just me and I got already too many responses echoing yours.