>Having said that if a woman for example was being abused by her husband there is no reason she should stay and be abused (similarly for children or anyone for that matter). She needs to find a safer environment. However, it does not mean she should automatically get a divorce. Her husband needs to get help and others such as family or friends should see that he does get help. Marriage is a community effort not just an individual decision.

Hi Simon,

If your boss abuses you, you try these?...

It seem you're a catholic. :)

You're trying defend a religious thing with logic. Religios has rules, you accept or don't. Don't try defend it with logic.