>I understand that it causes you pain, but you can only control yourself. If you have done nothing wrong, you have nothing to apologize for. If you did do something, then you should apologize to that person and try to move the relationship forward. Many times these things turn out to be communications problems. Trust me, I've had my share of those situations where someone thought I meant x and I really meant y. Try to explain your position and try to understand theirs. If it cannot be worked out, chalk it up to experience and move on.
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>YOU HAVE NO CONTROL OVER OTHERS, but you do have, or should have, control of your own actions. Happiness depends on what happens, but you can choose to be happy by not allowing negative things to impact you. I know this is easy to say and hard to implement, but it does work. Focus on positives, not negatives.

Thanks, John, to you and all others.