>Nope, definitely not a women thing :o) It's an individual thing. The biggest difference is that I could care less if it were me. You run into people who don't like you for whatever reason in life and it is not worth the time or effort to bother with it. At least no one is shooting at her. Too many years in the military have taught me to not sweat the little stuff. My perspective is a lot different. Focus on the good things in life. Besides, there are other forums and her efforts are definitely appreciated here. As long as you treat others as you would want to be treated then you have done all you can. Therer are some extreme situations where that is not possible. But here, in this civilian life, it generally is. Let it go.
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Too bad it didn't happen with you instead of me <g>