Why, oh why do I get two reactions saying that it is not a woman's thing ? I know it is not.

It is known that men do not always understand women. If it were me, I wouldn't have gone through all that trouble trying to get back in knowing I hadn't done anything wrong.

So to clarify. Women ! in this context means: I do not understand neither what nor why. And since you are a woman I give up trying to understand why since I never will. So it does not say it is a woman's thing ;-)
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>Nope, definitely not a women thing :o) It's an individual thing. The biggest difference is that I could care less if it were me. You run into people who don't like you for whatever reason in life and it is not worth the time or effort to bother with it. At least no one is shooting at her. Too many years in the military have taught me to not sweat the little stuff. My perspective is a lot different. Focus on the good things in life. Besides, there are other forums and her efforts are definitely appreciated here. As long as you treat others as you would want to be treated then you have done all you can. Therer are some extreme situations where that is not possible. But here, in this civilian life, it generally is. Let it go.
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>>>>Well, they haven't been very nice to you, have they ?
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>>>>But look at it this way ...
>>>>- some people complain
>>>>- site owner takes action (under kind-of-emotional pressure) I do not think that many people complained, just a few that the site owner respects.
>>>>- you have been apologizing, pleading, etc to get back in for quite some time now. To no avail
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>>>>If the site owner lets you back in then (1) he must confront the - anonymous - people that have complained, and (2) letting you back in is saying as much as 'I have been wrong'. Not many people can say they have been wrong. Seems that is hard for the ego
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>>>>So, what are the odds they let you back in ?
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>>>Very slim. I was just saying, that I'm ready to obey all the rules, try to control myself as much as possible, etc. I don't need an apology or anything of this sort. Something like: "We agreed to re-instantiate you on the site under certain conditions (list conditions)" would be fine with me.
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>>Women !