> If you aren't joking, no, I wasn't around for that. (Was he defending Meadow Soprano's honor? ;-) ) Even if true there's a big difference. You get in Kevin's face, he gets right back in yours. Naomi isn't like that. She internalizes it. That should be kept in mind.
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>Almost 3 years ago, a former forum member named William Sanders got angry at me for defending/backing JVP. He posted about getting on a plane to come to PA for a sword-fight. Here are a few messages from him, for your after-the-fact entertainment:
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>Message #927524
>Message #927544
>Message #927549
>Message #927542
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>I think he admitted the next day he'd been drinking or something, and tried to go back and "cover up" some of his other messages by updating them. He tried to apologize, but I told him to go pound sand.
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>Sanders eventually got banned after going on another f-bomb tirade a few months later.


He got tossed not long after I started hanging out on the UT regularly, so I am not familiar with the whole history. That is quite amazing that he would threaten to fly to PA for a sword fight, drunk or sober.

Still, I'm sure you understand the point I was making. You can take care of yourself and have coping mechanisms. "Pound sand," for instance. I am kind of that way, too. Naomi is not. Just because she would be happier and healthier if she were less obsessive does not change the facts. All I am asking anyone to do is cut her some slack.