>>>Can you explain to me what is meant by "what's good for the goose is good for the gander"?
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>>If something is good enough for one, it's good enough for all.
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>>Traditionally, btw, it's not "what's good," but "what's sauce," I think.
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>That's generally the way I've heard it, too.
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>I might quibble with your definition. To me it has a more specific, personal connotation. "You did it so now I can, too." Something like that.

Yeah, I think you're right. What I don't think was intended, though, was a gender reference.

Tamar