Good for you! It is sad that you have to be so vigilent when it comes to your ex, I can sympathize with you! It will make you one smart woman though (if it hasn't already) :o)



>>The only place I step over that line is when it comes to the safety of my daughter.
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>Amen on this one!!! I consider myself to have a pretty high moral value and integrity .. but as a mother ... I would do just about anything to protect my children. I have been stuck in a very ugly custody battle and when my son told me that his father has a plan to get some big money .. and it's risky .. and it involves my son .. you can imagine the major concern I had. If I knew of any way to get more information .. I would!!
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>But I think I figured it out when my ex attempted to get my son to "loan" him all his savings so he could buy my son a 4-wheeler .. just a few days before my ex flew off to Vegas. Gee .. can we all see the scam?!?!? Luckily I was a step ahead of my ex and I had already moved my son's money out of his savings account and into a CD when I heard of the risky plan. I'm soooo glad I followed my gut!!