I love your 'castle' analogy...


>>>Laughing Out Loud!
>>>This is what you call 'good negotiator' ;
>>>According to 'rates' I am getting, looks like I am married to Alan Greenspan!
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>>If you really were married to Alan Greenspan, well, that's something to be worried :D
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>Just kidding of course.
>But yes, marriage is give/take. Priorities get shifted from our naturally selfish selves, to a family as a whole.
>Some people simply cannot come to terms with this, some people are never meant to be for each other, some persons are simply that bad that it is better for the other side if marriage is over...
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>My parents have been married for over 40 years, and mu wife's parrents
>even longer. I believe that these kind of lifetime commitment landmark/victories by our parents (among other things) made us who we are.
>Love, security and warm family feeling is defenetely something we want to pass on to our chilldren.
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>Married (only) 10 years / keep building that castle :)