>That was my original thought. But when I ask, they said, i going to edit the record that was market check in a second form that will have a control to move from 1 to whatever number check mark i have.

So you want your child form to be open at all times, and switch dynamically based on the record selected in the parent form? How do you want to edit the record? Do you want to populate textboxes and other controls, or do you want to edit it in another datagrid?