As Craig mention, the signs are there if you look for them (although you have to look pretty darn close).

These should help point you in the right direction...

http://www.bobharris.com/content/view/1406/1/
http://devron.wordpress.com/2007/06/11/sopranos-made-in-america-review-and-an-analysis-of-the-ending-moments/

>Hi
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>OK, me and the Wife sat there and watched the final show last night. Tony, AJ and Carmella were sat around the table in the diner. Meadow was having trouble parking her car outside .The camera kept panning to different individuals in the diner. Then, the screen went black and then, the credits rolled.
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>What happened? Is it just me?
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>Help :)
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>Best
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>-=Gary