>Sorry, but I do not know that much about view. Hopefully, someone else will jumping in with more help.
After struggling in updateable remote views I have gone to ADO. ADO works fine. I can update any record without any update conflict error. I like the way of ADO data handling. There is a must read article about ADO Jumpstart for VFP.
http://msdn2.microsoft.com/en-us/library/ms917355.aspxRegards,
Zaheer