>>>I have an editbox class that in gotfocus expands limited to its parent.container and shrinks to one line height in lostfocus. Here is the gotfocus code :
>>>

WITH this
>>>  thisform.lockscreen = .t.
>>>  IF !.readonly or ;
>>>     ( !isnull(evaluate(.controlsource)) and ;
>>>	!empty(evaluate(.controlsource)) )
>>>	if .parent.baseclass="Column"		&& We are in a grid
>>>		.parent.parent.scrollbars = 0  && Turn of scrollbars
>>>		.parent.parent.rowheight	= .ExpandedHeight
>>>		.parent.width			= .ExpandedWidth
>>>	else
>>>		.height	= .ExpandedHeight
>>>		.width	= .ExpandedWidth
>>>		.zorder(0)
>>>	endif
>>>  ENDIF
>>>  thisform.lockscreen = .f.
>>>ENDWITH

Expanded* props are set in init. When dropped to grid and sparse=.f., works good (err nearly, otherwise no problem).
>>>
>>>If tab is used to move to field or relativerow#1 and clicked no problem, it works as intended :)
>>>
>>>The problem is :
>>>When user (me now) clicks on memofield and grid.relativerow=1, grid.rowheight changes but not column width :(
>>>
>>>Any ideas what's happening when relativerow=1 and clicked (I want to drop extra workaround code in click). MTIA.
>>>Cetin
>>
>>Did you try to push Column.Visible=.f. Column.Visible=.t. ?
>
>Just now tried but didn't help. Also I tried every version of lockscreen + turning sparse on/off there. Thanks.
>Cetin

You could try two more common VFP workarounds:
1. Add Wait Window "" TIMEOUT 0.1 after changing the width
or
2. Fire all GotFocus code from one-time Timer.