I totally agree with you but I guess you already knew that. I agree that it wasn't really right to call someone a "girl"....because when I think of girls, I think of Meadow Soprano, the cheerleader from Heros, Joey Heatherton (before the cocaine), that new chick on "Sarah Conner Chronicles" who makes me want to give up my career and become an actor in the hopes that I'll be paired with her in some kind of future series where I get to not only act out the scenes but also pick the wardrobe and the dialog and the scenery and what hotel we wind up in and what kind of champagne we order while we're in the hot tub and how many times she turns her arm into a gun to save my life from Cyborgs and....(oh, wait, I'm getting off-topic)
So anyway...it's wrong to call someone a girl...I like girls. ;)