>I do not do development work anymore so I only login here every 3 months or so to see what's going on - mainly in Chatter. I do not really know your history here over the past 2 years, but maybe you need actual socialization in a LIVE organization instead of virtual or telephone. Everyone needs personal interaction regardless of how "close" you feel to those in a virtual setting.

Yes, that's hitting the nail of the problem.

But it's not easy to find new friends in a big city.

I had a great friend in Columbus and I have friends in Boston, but no real social interaction here in NYC.

And I wished to be able to find some real friends by interacting on the technical problems even if this is somehow absurd.

But I was able to only find a couple of enemies and broke almost all good relations I had.