>>Greg,
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>>What terrible news. It's clear how much you loved her, as it has been clear in earlier posts. Despite everything. I know it's not much consolation now but you were lucky to have each other for as long as you did.
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>>This part is going to be the hardest. Just keep in mind that it can't get any worse than this, and will with time get a little better. That's not diminishing your loss. It's just the way we as human beings try to cope.
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>>You are not alone.
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>>In fact, I just got an idea which gives me a smile (sorry) but may be a good one, who knows? I know there is at least one other UT person in Memphis <g>. The dope smoker and the tough guy sheriff -- that's why I'm smiling. But seriously, maybe you and John should get together for a cup of coffee or something. He and I don't agree on anything but I know he is someone who can be counted on in a rough spot.
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>>I think that goes for everyone here. Please let us know if there is anything we can do, anything at all.
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>>Mike
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>You're right Mike. Greg, I'm here if you want to have a cup of coffee or maybe lunch. I've even been trained in crisis intervention, which means I know a lot about "active listening."<g> Seriously, if you want to get together and talk, I'd be more than willing.
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>You can send me a pm, if you are so inclined.

Thanks. Perhaps not on a consulting basis but as a friend. I have been here in Memphis over a year now and still know nobody. I will be in touch later.