It may be too soon to tackle all of that (emotionally). Another option is to wait until spring break from school and perhaps the teens can come visit you at that time and you all can do it together? You might consider bringing that up to them as an option. They may not wish to do it, but they may want to be offered the choice. Then if they decide no, you can tackle it all when you are feeling emotionally stronger.



>>My sincere condolances. You'll always have people here to chat with when times are tougher.
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>Thanks.
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>The toughest thing is yet to come. I need to go though her personal things and decide what to keep, what to send to her children (and when), and what to donate. If I can make it though that, I just might make it myself.
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>>>Tonight, at 11:43, Jan 28, 2008, My wife died from a failed liver. Along with many other problem, including loss of weight from not eating, pancreatis illness issues, hearth and lung, it was a matter of time. We both knew this.
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>>>She was my best and only friend I had. I am going to feel soooooo lonely from this point forward. Here I am in Memphis, now all alone.
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>>>I did my best to stop her from the drinking, but me being gone all day, she too got lonely and I guess the Tortilla was the only friend she had then. It finally caught up to her.
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>>>I held her hand in the last moments, and felt the last pulse of her heart. Things like that make one thing about themselves and the thing they do.
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>>>My world has been shattered and will never be the same again. I will be alright, but the next few weeks are going to be rough.
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>>>I and my cat (Tiger) keep looking over at the chair expecting to she Angela sitting there, but never more.
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>>>Thank to all.
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>>>Greg
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>>>(Please, no thread drift.)