>>No but you broke into somones acccount surreptitiously becuase you couldn't bear someone talking about you without you knowing what was said. It just as bad as threatening someone in my mind.
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>How about undergoing vicious attack first? And e-mails as well? And apologizing in public and in private but never getting an apology back?

You can rationalize it any way you want. It was WRONG! and you know it. Face up to it.