Reminds me that someone once said something like, "If you realized how LITTLE (as in time) people thought of you, you wouldn't care so much WHAT they think of you."

I think we flatter ourselves sometimes thinking others don't like us - when in fact, they haven't even given is a thought. (yea - I know that sounded backwards...just think about it.)

>Naomi, you are just causing yourself unnecessary pain by worrying so much about what people think of you. I realize you take things to heart more than most of us, who can take the rough and tumble, but still -- you don't seem to be avoiding unpleasant thoughts. You seem almost to be embracing them. If someone doesn't want to converse with you, just let it go. Reply or don't reply to their technical posts as the spirit moves you. And know that there are many people who do like you and appreciate your contributions here.
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>Be happy. It's not a disease <g>.
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