>Naomi, For a long while you suffered the "indignity" of having face-to-face co-worker "twit" you and as best I could gather it was entirely YOUR fault. I put indignity in quotes because a ral-life face-to-face situation is much tougher than some electronic twitting.
>As far as I know you never got to re-establish any kind of rapport with that person. You wanted that more than anything too, and you didn't get it.
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Here you're wrong again. Yes, when this person avoided me, I did suffer a lot.

But I can say you that now we're back being buddies (can communicate freely again) and I don't think much about him. And I used to think a lot while this lasted.

>You really really NEED to look hrd at yourself. You can push people over the edge and don't even seem to realize it. But surely your record by now tells you that YOU need to change your ways OR IGNORE BEING TWITTED.
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>I feel very sorry for you. You have proven - should even be true to yourself - that you easily alienate some people. Either live with that and its consequences or change. Unfortunately, for those who have twitted you, they cannot learn that you changed (if you do). That's the way life works.
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Yes, that's my problem, unfortunately. I REALLY, REALLY don't want to be against anyone and always fall into the same hole. The problem is - the more I want to be friendly, or be in the forum, or something of this kind - the more the person resists and the more I want it. Immediatelly after the relations normalize I stop thinking about it.

Anyway, I'm removing you now. I hope you already tried a test.

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I just want this person to believe that I really changed or at least in the process of changing.