>It's a fact that you use the word whining, but does that prove that I was whining? I don't think so. The problem with reactions like yours is that when I express disagreement, you would see that as a continuation of whining and worrying. I can't really help it that you think that way. It's not in my hands. And I don't worry about it.

I know that you were not whining but just trying to express your point. But usually the more you try (or me) the worse it gets. There should be some sympathy, otherwise the people will see it differently, they way they want to suit their point of view.