>Oh I see, my mistake, not whining, but waffling

Verb 1. waffle - pause or hold back in uncertainty or unwillingness; "Authorities hesitate to quote exact figures"
hesitate, waver
dwell on, linger over - delay
boggle - hesitate when confronted with a problem, or when in doubt or fear
hover, linger - move to and fro; "The shy student lingered in the corner"
hover, oscillate, vacillate, vibrate - be undecided about something; waver between conflicting positions or courses of action; "He oscillates between accepting the new position and retirement"
falter, waver - be unsure or weak; "Their enthusiasm is faltering"

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