>>>Oh I see, my mistake, not whining, but waffling
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>>Verb 1. waffle - pause or hold back in uncertainty or unwillingness; "Authorities hesitate to quote exact figures"
>>hesitate, waver
>>dwell on, linger over - delay
>>boggle - hesitate when confronted with a problem, or when in doubt or fear
>>hover, linger - move to and fro; "The shy student lingered in the corner"
>>hover, oscillate, vacillate, vibrate - be undecided about something; waver between conflicting positions or courses of action; "He oscillates between accepting the new position and retirement"
>>falter, waver - be unsure or weak; "Their enthusiasm is faltering"
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>>http://www.thefreedictionary.com/Waffling
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>Some more ....
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>http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Waffling
>http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=waffling
>http://dictionary.cambridge.org/define.asp?key=88770&dict=CALD
>http://dictionary.reference.com/search?q=waffling&r=66
>http://www.worldwidewords.org/qa/qa-waf1.htm

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