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>Hi there
>we've an internal application that sends automatic emails when certain conditions are met. all works fine but getting following warning message before sending:
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>"A program is trying to send an e-mail message on your behalf. If this is unexpected, click Deny and verify your antivirus software is up-to-date. For more information about e-mail safety and how you might be able to avoid getting this warning, click Help."
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>am using MSMAPI to send emails and question is there any way to suppress above warnings?
>Thanks for the advise.
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>btw am using vfp8.