Jim, I'm member of quite a few sites as well including some outside IT.
The first "hateful" online exchange I ever saw was from a VB flame bully summoned to a comparative discussion a decade ago by a VFP MVP who was toying with VB. That was on DevX. The only one I ever saw on UT was years ago and ended with the ban of both participants. I'm told there was some ugly stuff in chatter as well but I seem to have managed to miss most of that.
IMHO the arrival of 2 mags should be a time to "accentuate the positive and eliminate the negative" not to escalate longstanding grudges. That's my whole take on this.
"... They ne'er cared for us
yet: suffer us to famish, and their store-houses
crammed with grain; make edicts for usury, to
support usurers; repeal daily any wholesome act
established against the rich, and provide more
piercing statutes daily, to chain up and restrain
the poor. If the wars eat us not up, they will; and
there's all the love they bear us."
-- Shakespeare: Coriolanus, Act 1, scene 1