>I can't find anything in her post which accurately reflects your participation here at all. Nothing whatsoever. She is not describing you the way I view you at all. I think you are one of the better, more interesting, honest, and open contributors here.
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>I'm sorry to say it Mike but she writes certain things which, to the best of my knowledge, have not occured here. Other sentences like; "If you are both on line at the same time, you will disappear and everyone assumes you two have switched to the private mail or on to the phone calls" - the UT does not even work this way. She is misinformed.
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>If you want my opinion - you need to move on and away from this. It is unlikely you can gain anything and actually stand to lose more. Focus on your children, they are #1 priority. Everything else is secondary. Actually, everything else is less than secondary.

So true. Every time I feel weak I think of them and what I nearly did to them.

And yes, I am moving away from this woman. That's painful in a way because she was really my perfect woman -- brilliant, gorgeous, sexy, funny, creative. And then there were her bad days.... I am working full time on getting my own house in order and can't afford her drama. She has hurt me before, intentionally, with a purpose in mind. I am not ungrateful for that. Now she is just being mean. To quote one of her own words, vuffanculo.

Moving on....