>>>BTW, I don't think anyone was feeding her misleading information. I think she has been lurking herself. Her account that she has friends on the UT who somehow made the connection that I am the Mike she often mentioned strikes me as quite unlikely. And I know she has lurked on other forums, sometimes under assumed names. Whatever. It doesn't matter now.
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>>So you don't know who the "common connection" is? Yeah, in that case, might be her under a pseudonym.
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>>OTOH, if someone made this happen now to mess with your recovery, then that's really, really low.
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>I don't think that. IAC one of the things I have learned is the only person responsible for my recovery is me. It's important that I be willing to accept help but that doesn't make it anyone's responsibility but mine. There are always going to be aggravations in life and I need to be able to deal with them without alcohol.

Absolutely. Good to hear you saying it, all of it.

Tamar