>>Naomi
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>>Did you really intend to offend?
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>>Your signature states: "If you find this message rude or offensive or stupid please don't hesitate to tell me about it. I apologize in advance."
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>>Jay's doing as you asked. :)
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>Nope. I believe everyone here should be able to take a critique and use it as a way to improve him/herself rather than feeling offended.

You think anyone should be able to say whatever they want to anyone else without concern for how it will be taken? Seriously?