Naomi, instead of getting "advice" from colleagues and friends why not get some professional help by a Doctor. This is not a place filled with psychiatrists and psychologists who can help you properly.


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>>>I did. I wish I can find a solution, but I'm afraid there is no one. It's just so hard :(
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>>Take up a sport. Tennis is good. Though, I recall in NYC it's not as easy to find courts or people to play with as it is down here.
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>For a start, I'll call my other friend. She called me today, but I could not talk much.
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>>What about joining a readers club? You meet people and discuss what you've read. Not my cup of tea really, but I know others who enjoy it.
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>This actually sounds like a thing I may like. I'll check around.
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>>What about a project. And I don't mean a technical one. Painting? Go to the museum and do sketches. Something creative.
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>>How about getting out of the city for a long weekend? Go somewhere you would never think of going. Take pictures, put them up on the internet and share the experience here.
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>>You could also volunteer somewhere doing something that you enjoy, or might enjoy.
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>>The city is a hard place to make friends. I know, that's one reason I'm down here. You can do it though.
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>Thanks, I'll think a bit more on a way home.