>Nope, I didn't discuss this problem with a Rabbi.
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>Then medical insurance has nothing to do with it. Does it.
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>Some of those NY Rabbis are highly experienced in this sort of area. They are also utterly discrete. And being in NY there is probably nothing you can tell them that will shock them. Seems like all positives to me. Up to you.

I'll think about it. It's a bit hard to talk with someone who is not close to you. Besides, Rabbies are only people as well, they can not make miracles to happen.