>>>I did mess up badly in relations, but I did it a long time ago and it just progressed to worse case. Nothing I can do about whatever I tried.
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>>Hey, I was pulling your leg
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>>I would not worry about it
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>>Back in 1983, one of my managers told me: you can bring a horse to the water, but you cannot make it drink
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>>Do not worry about it, do not try 'hard'
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>I knew, Gregory :) Thanks.
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Cats are my favourite

If you 'rush', try to caress them, take them into your arms - they will run away
If you are patient, they will come eventually ( as in: in the end)