>>>>>>You're probably breeding a future spy. She will become an expert at evading surveillance and countermeasures :-)
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>>>>>Or perhaps she will grow up well adjusted and know that someone cared enough to watch over her.
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>>>>I hope she does. But trusting children isn't about neglect which is what you seem to think.
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>>>By the same token, you seem to think that caring enough to watch over her is about lack of trust.
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>>No. I think this about fear and I understand that.
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>I don't disagree with you on that, but fear is not necessarily unwarranted or a bad thing. Your level of concern is just different than mine. Do you have any daughters?

I have one of each. I think my level of concern is the same as yours and Tamars and Tracys. But we have different routes to the same thing. ie happy secure offspring.